Hey Abundant girl
You have to come to a place where you are willing to take responsibility for your part in the story. Your part in the friendship ending, relationship turning toxic, your part in not getting that opportunity etc…
This is not a cute post, but a necessary one as we tackle wellness and wellbeing. Honesty is one of the most powerful gifts you could ever give yourself. What we ignore debris and that clogs up our spiritual, physical, and emotional wellbeing. Nothing is worth you losing you.
Some people are short tempered, some are impatient and some carry everyone and everyone’s needs yet they refuse to be carried when they are in need these are all traits of toxicity. You have to build an intolerance for the unhealthy parts of you, they are not cute and they are boring now. They have put you in unworthy situations long enough, they have caused you to have low self-esteem in areas you are gifted in and they have kept you in a job you hate because you are afraid to try anything else.
Learn to listen when you get into a disagreement without defending yourself, often at times people who experience you have a better viewpoint on where your weaknesses are like many of us, it’s always easier to point at another person than it is to look within ourselves. God made us this way, I think so that we would not live independently from one another we are social beings after all.
There are practical tools you can use to unclog your flow:
This will look like journaling
Finding a mentor
Going to counseling
Even talking to yourself.
My personal favorite is talking to myself, talking to myself before I respond to offense by trying to gain understanding from a different perspective, talking to myself before accusing “you always do this” and instead “you know when this happens I get hurt, please tell me what happened”. These are little yet necessary acts we actively need to do to become better.
What if you had a glimpse of your best life and the only thing between you and it is a past trauma you are struggling to let go of?
What if your impatience has cost you your breakthrough? because you could not wait to see a thing through you rushed and stumbled into things that cost you more than the wait.
Wellness and Well-being flow from how we see ourselves. It is in how we see ourselves that we see the world and practice grace for one another.
Wealthy girls don’t play the blame game, they do the work and attract what they are.
I love you
Go forth and be fabulous
SheisCertified 